self-esteem

When a relationship ends, women often spend a great deal of time asking themselves “Why?” and wondering if there is something inherently wrong with them which makes finding love so difficult. Here’s some useful wisdom that you can apply during those times when you start to question yourself in this way: Don’t ask why. Ask [...]

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Over on Baggage Reclaim, a reader, Kim2, posted this comment: Why do we waste time with men like this?…I believe it is low self-esteem and low expectations but I don’t know how to correct that. How to get so proud of yourself and respect yourself enough to not waste time on jerks. Here’s my answer, [...]

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I focus on myself, my life, my work, my hobbies. I want someone to share my life with, but I’m not consumed by their absence from it. Life is good, though perhaps not great. I am happy. I love myself. Then you come along. Suddenly, all I can think about is you. Happy, lucky, optimistic [...]

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